Question by Taylor’s Momma: Would you make her pay you back?
My est friend was going to be my MOH in my wedding. I had a wedding planned for my hometown and had all the vendors booked. My friend kept urging me to have a beach wedding. She convinced me it would be cheaper because not as many people would attend and I wouldn’t have the high cost of flowers and decorations, etc. So I went with it. I cancelled all my vendors and lost about $ 1400. I realize now I should not have let her talk me out of the wedding I had dreamed of, but hind sight is 20/20.
So we go on planning the beach wedding, I book everyones rooms on my credit card (my boss is a timeshare owner and it was much cheaper if they were in my name because we could use my bosses account). Everyone paid me back except my MOH, who kept saying she would. She owed me just under $ 400.
I bought silk bouquets for me and her- hers was $ 44 and many other little things, jewelry, shoes, etc.
Three weeks before my wedding she says she isn’t going because her boss will only give her enough time off to stay five days and thats not long enough to spend that much money. She is not apologetic, in fact she was kinda shitty acting like I should pay for EVERYTHING.
Should I ask her to pay it back? We haven’t spoken in almost a week. I am recently unemployed and she makes good money. In fact I just saw on her FB that she is going to take the vacation time still, but is traveling elsewhere.
Best answer:
Answer by Bella
Looks like you aren’t happy with this person, and it also sounds as if you and this person was pretty close, to you…. Not sure what is happening between the two of you but something else must of happened for it to get to this stage… But to go and ask for your money back, won’t help you out and won’t help with your friendship either… And is it worth going to all that trouble in trying to get your money back, it may cost you more then money trying to get what is owed to you in the long run….
Why not try talking to this person, somewhere in public, like a cafe and see what the problem is or maybe you two could resolve it all…. I wouldn’t want to go in there asking for your money back not before you can talk it over with one another and face to face…….
All the best in your marriage,…
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